Charles Ralph Carlton

Posted on January 10, 2025

Charles Ralph Carlton was born Jan. 10, 1925, and died on Jan. 6, 2025.

He was predeceased by: his parents, Glover and Corrine Carlton; his beloved wife of 73 years, Pansy Hendry Carlton; his son, Mark Anthony Carlton; and his siblings, Edna Parker, Fred Carlton, Reba Blackshear and Mildred Meadows.

He is survived by: his children, Linda Hawkins (Vance Burford) and Charles (Diane) Carlton, both of Perry; his grandchildren, Amber Carlton and Wesley Carlton; his siblings, Cecil Carlton, Anita Carlton and Gaye Register; and a host of nieces and nephews.

Ralph’s closest friends and family had planned to celebrate his big day turning 100 with him by throwing a big party, but he had a different kind of celebration in mind for his loved ones.

He bid farewell to this world just a few days shy of 100, making his birthday party a bigger celebration than we could have ever imagined, proving once again that his impeccable timing and sense of humor were unmatched.

Ralph’s century-long journey was one for the books – a life of many sweet recollections and countless moments of quiet brilliance.

He joined the Army in May 1943, at the age 18, where he spent one year stateside and then shipped overseas, where he fought in the European Theatre until the war ended in 1946, earning him an honorable discharge and several decorations and citations.

He began his career as a typist in the Clerk’s office in 1946, leading into a synonymous seven-decade long public service reign after eventually becoming Clerk of the Court in 1961.

Ralph retired as Clerk in 1988, spent some time traveling the country, and eventually returned in 1992 as a Deputy Clerk again, still earning the respect of all until his final retirement in 2017.

He often led with an air of mystery and had a reputation for being a man of few words. Those who worked under him or beside him knew that his silence often spoke louder than words, and when he did speak, his wit left a lasting impression and oftentimes left you pondering what he meant.

While Ralph kept his words to a minimum, he had a unique way of expressing himself.

He was known for his love of hugs, so much so, that he had one charming rule – he had to receive a hug from anyone wearing pink. It was a trait that endeared him to those around him, and it wasn’t uncommon to see people donning his favorite color just to earn one of his legendary embraces.

Many of those close to him earned a unique, but appropriate nickname, including his wife Pansy a/k/a Mrs. McGillicuddy.

He also earned a few nicknames himself, such as “Uncle Ralph,” “R.C.” and “Mr. C.”

He loved traveling all over, listening to country and gospel music, attending music festivals and the annual Plant City Strawberry Festival and spending time at the beach.

Ralph lived a life full of quiet wisdom, subtle charm and an unshakable character. Many considered him a fountain of information and an example for life.

Though he rarely sought the spotlight, his presence lit up every room he entered, and his legacy will remain in the hearts of those lucky enough to have known him.

He leaves behind a world that was a little brighter because he was in it and endless memories that will make his loved ones smile for years to come.

On this day, his centennial birthday, we celebrate not just the length of his life, but also the depth of it.

Rest easy, Ralph…may the hugs be plentiful, and may there always be a touch of pink in your world.

Funeral services will be held at Burns Funeral Home on Friday, Jan. 10, at 1 p.m. with Brother Chris Arnold officiating. The family will receive friends one hour prior to the service, beginning at noon.

Interment will follow in Woodlawn Cemetery.

Services are under the care of Joe P. Burns Funeral Home.

Friends may sign the online guest book at joepburnsfuneralhomes.com.